The Benjamin Franklin Effect

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If you want someone to like you, ask them to do you a small favor. It might sound backward, but studies show that if you do something nice for someone, you will like them more and want to help them again. It’s called The Benjamin Franklin Effect. According to legend, Franklin asked an enemy if he could borrow a book, then thanked him profusely. They became lifelong friends.

Who We Spend It On

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There’s only one thing more precious than our time and that’s who we spend it on. ~ Leo Christopher

Always Continue The Climb

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Always continue the climb. It is possible for you to do whatever you choose, if you first get to know who you are and are willing to work with a power that is greater than ourselves to do it. ~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox

The Tide Will Turn

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When you get into a tight place & everything goes against you, till it seems you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place & time that the tide will turn.

Don’t ask. Act!

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Do you want to know who you are? Don’t ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you. ~ Thomas Jefferson

Who Told You That?

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When you worry that someone dislikes you, is upset with you, or that the situation is worse than it truly is, stop and think, “Who told you that?” Usually, you won’t know the answer and will discover that it’s only a thought, which you can choose to reject.

A Soft Heart

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A soft heart has nothing to do with being a coward. In fact, the bravest people I’ve ever known have had the softest hearts. ~ Henry B. Eyring